Christian dating app named Christian Cafe is turning me into Sherlock Holmes

[farouk]

On 12/27/2023 at 3:23 PM, believeinHim said:

I do wear makeup, And I used to apply it pretty liberally in the past.

I have a picture from my mid to later twenties, When my hair wasn't quite so thick anymore up on here, But that was a bit older then. Later twenties,. I still have just about the same amount of hair

@believeinHim Make up is really about emphasis: maybe accentuating eyes, eyebrows, lips and maintaining either a uniform skin color or gradually emphasizing cheeks, etc. As you would well know.

My wife does not apply her make up heavily at all. But she also does not feel properly dressed if she goes out without putting on her face.

But in whole personality terms, it's the inward and spiritual emphases that really count. Philippians 4.8 says: "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." (Philippians 4.8) ; we indeed need to keep "looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, Who for the joy that was set before Him, endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God" (Hebrews 12.2).

[WilliamL]

On 12/27/2023 at 12:43 PM, Renskedejonge said:

Oh wow good riddance. Watch out. I briefly dated a guy I met in a church. He went to his other gf from my money. A couple warned me. Then I warned her. I wondered if he was a sociopath. Also love bombing and lying. Wanted to marry quick, while having loads of debt and not even the right to use his own money. His own family helped his ex wife to get rid of him. Now I just have a rabbit for company.

Rabbits will never lie to you. But they are rather lazy, and sponge their living off of you. 

[farouk]

On 12/27/2023 at 3:26 PM, believeinHim said:

With me being way more conservative.

@believeinHim I am reminded of President George H. W. Bush's comment about the descent of opinion into politics: 'policy differences by subpoena'............

Ppl will argue vehemently about opinions as if they are a transgression of the law.

[Mozart's Starling]

Not giving me hope lol. I haven't even attempted a relationship in 7 years. Sent my best friend on a scouting mission for me recently though. He's known me since elementary school. I'm 33 now and need to actually get on the ball pronto.

Edited February 1, 2024 by Mozart's Starling

[Rockson]

On 12/26/2023 at 2:50 PM, FJK said:

I'm way past the age of being concerned with such things, but let me ask those who aren't:  What does anybody hope to gain by misrepresenting themself as something they are not?

Don't think I"m a dating app guy I'm happily married for over 40 years but why would one misrepresent themselves? Maybe for this reason. . They feel if they told the truth nobody would even talk to them. People are looking for someone that has something going for them. 

[Holly Hobbie]

I was scammed pretty bad by e harmony never been on Christian Cafe s dating site. Don't want to be. If God wants me single then I am his Zoosk is another bad site.

[Holly Hobbie]

On 2/6/2024 at 4:56 AM, Rockson said:

Don't think I"m a dating app guy I'm happily married for over 40 years but why would one misrepresent themselves? Maybe for this reason. . They feel if they told the truth nobody would even talk to them. People are looking for someone that has something going for them. 

I was very open to open about myself that I itself was not good . I wound up having my savings cleaned out . These sites aren't all they're cracked up to be.