First of all,
I must apologize for posting a personal problem in this forum. I was not able to put up a new post anywhere else.
Secondly, I was referred here by an email friend of mine called Namritha a.k.a. Gerda Hannah. She told me that this forum gives excellent advice.
My problem is this, I had an affair with a friend of mine. I disobeyed God and started this relationship. We later broke up. I used to pride myself on the fact that I was his best friend and I was more important to him than anybody else. We used to talk everyday. But now I am not able to talk to him everyday and he has found other friends. I am not his best friend, I am just one of his friends. That makes me very very sad. When I asked my friends for advice, they told me that true loves is like 1 Cor. 13. In that verse, it says that love must not be boastful.
1. Was I being boastful when I took pride in the fact that I was the most important person to him? Should I let go of that attitude? Don't best friends feel happy that they are very important to each other?
2. At this point, what are the option open to me? Is taking the definition of 1 Cor. 13 and following it the only option open to me?